If that's the case, I'll admit it's pretty hard to find.
It's pretty hard for any site these days (especially the big ones) to stop fake profiles and scammers from signing up, but I think I get what you're after.
So, here are my tips, I hope, they can help somebody to avoid a problem...
However I noticed (after reading the letters shown in the list) that there are certain things, you can notice before the scammer reaches your bank account. Because I am also one of you (more or less), somebody who is looking for a life partner and decided to give it a try online. and I think, I know what a woman is looking for online if she is not a scammer.Always be wary of the signs of an internet dating scam.We can all help keep each other safe by reporting dating scams.You can use different handles in each section under the same account too, so no one will be any wiser if you want to advertise for one thing in one place without ruining your chances for something more should it come up.After Lavalife, I only know of a few others that are worth mentioning, although I've yet to find one that's truly ideal.To answer your question: it depends on what you mean by legitimate.Are you looking for an adult dating site that caters to adult encounters or casual sex, that isn't full of scammers or fake profiles?It seems all that I have come across do not have real/true information... I sent the company an email to complain, but they didn't reply.And when I clicked on a picture, the city and/or state changed to someplace nearby... There has to be a legitimate adult dating site out there. "Welcome, Stephen, and thanks to my colleague, sexuality expert Cory Silverberg, for sending you my way.The fraud utilized the infamous "visa and airfare" scheme: Mc Coy and his wife Anna were posing as Russian women seeking marriage and a non-existing Russian marriage agency that would provide women with visas and tickets.(Click here for earlier reports on this scam.) Don't move any further until you read The Complete, No-Nonsense ANTI-SCAM GUIDE For Internet Dating.