That they would reject me and you did have a desire for us to blend and bond. I cannot change anything in the house or bring in new things (i.e.
When we started our relationship you were concerned the children wouldn’t care for me. You belittle and trivialize me and my accomplishments, likes, hopes and dreams. You try to make me feel as though you are always right, and I am wrong. You regularly give me disapproving or contemptuous looks or body language. You regularly point out my flaws, mistakes, or shortcomings. You accuse and blame me for things you know aren’t true. The effects of this emotional abuse over time have caused me emotional trauma, including depression and anxiety. All my love, Her name Sweetheart, It was difficult to read some of the things that you wrote in your e-mail to me, but I can accept that you feel that way.There have been many moments of joy and pleasure in our relationship. I feel that sometimes you and I have different expectations of what we want from a relationship and that is a source of friction for us. I do not know why you thought that we had broken up, but evidently that is what you wanted.I find myself doing things I don’t wish to do because of your behavior to me if I don’t. It is clear this will only continue and it is getting more intense and more frequent. They also enjoy your company and would like to see you again.At times I feel guilty and like I have to walk on eggshells just to keep less stress in my life. You make excuses for your behaviour, try to blame others, and have difficulty apologizing especially in a timely manner. You blame me for your problems, life difficulties and unhappiness. You give me unpleasant labels and make cutting remark. You get emotionally distant and emotionally unavailable a lot of the time. You disengage and use neglect and abandonment to punish me (like sleeping on the couch or the kids rooms). You don’t seem to notice or care about my feelings. You view me as an extension of your ex-husband, rather than as me the individual. You withhold sex as a way to manipulate, punish and control. You deny your emotionally abusive behaviour when I have brought it to your attention. I hate to admit it but I don’t see it getting better I don’t see a future with you. I am a 60 year old male who was living with a 50 year old female for three years. I wrote a letter to my Ex-girlfriend a few days after I left.I had said to myself enough is enough after one of her quick insulting outbursts.I have found that I cannot trust you with my heart, so I keep my mouth shut.It pains me to say, accept, digest and admit that I have come to the realization that I am in an emotionally abusive relationship.You got what you wanted but your jealousy consumes you. I have been living of late knowing and feeling that most everything I do and say will be wrong.