The hard to get player will take a genuine interest in your life.
They may still not seem 100%, keen and will try to maintain the act of indifference, but the personal questions they ask give them away.
The uninterested person, if they have agreed to a date will not have a clear idea of when you can meet again in the future.
It’s actually possible that they will just stand you up and leave you waiting alone at the restaurant.
If someone is playing hard to get they will avoid hurting your feelings unnecessarily.
The uninterested person will remember very little of what you have told them and will try their best to avoid asking you anything too personal.
Like John Travolta’s character Danny Zuko in Grease, the men of today (and yesteryear) all labour through the trials of dating under the misguided notion that “playing it cool” gets the girl. Well, if the dating game today is anything to go by, then apparently we do.
Following “The Rules” that state that you cannot seem too interested in a guy is probably the wrong way to go about getting your man. Do we really think that “treat ’em mean to keep ’em keen” is really all it’s cracked up to be?
Someone who is uninterested will just leave you hanging.
They won’t call you or even return your calls, and to be honest, you should really have spotted that something is wrong at this stage.