I wondered how on earth would a blind person see something so small? We got a table outside, but in retrospect inside might have been better. I wondered if that was the reason he had initially asked me to email and not call him. And just like that my 00 shoes went back into the box. It was awfully warm and humid and the silver-haired New Yorker who was dressed all in black must have been pretty uncomfortable. The unfortunate shoe incident left me deflated and uninspired. Off went the other shoe, and in slid the other foot. I realized at that point that I was clearly dealing with a bizarre blind man with a foot and leg fetish. When the check came I noticed he seemed not to have too much difficulty reading the bill. Apparently neither Barney’s nor Bergdorf’s had any size 8s in stock. I had to admit that at that moment I was feeling every bit like Cinderella, and somehow on my feet the shoes looked more like glass slippers than the remains they resembled in the box. I wobbled at first feeling like a drunk Cinderella. We left the restaurant and I knew I would not see or hear from him again.
We talked openly about failed relationships, marriages and our childhoods.
I felt like a character on television, not a soon-to-be divorced middle-aged mother of 3 in the uneventful confines of the Fairfield County suburbs.
AJ lived and worked in Manhattan but had a second home not far from where I lived.
However, when a woman does feel attracted to a guy’s personality and confidence, she then looks at the rest of him in a more positive light.
Watch this video to understand how a woman’s attraction works for a man and how you can make her want you, even if you’re not wearing great shoes when you meet her…