As if it couldn't get any worse, when a question came up about a man’s ethnic background, because the dark-skinned and balding man could arguably pass for either African or South-Asian, Richard retorted that the man was “black as sh**.”The guest’s retelling of Richard’s Thanksgiving behavior created a terrifying image of my handsome, brilliant and talented nephew, whom I deeply love.
Seeing beauty in a black woman is seeing beauty in himself. Lastly, I told him that his current perspective serves as a curse upon his teenage sister who will soon navigate the dating world. I firmly believe that we're spiritual beings having human experiences.I was so busy setting and clearing the table, directing guests and caring for my two toddler boys that I hardly listened to the dinner conversation.But the next day, a guest called me to tell me about my teenage nephew’s views on dating. Apparently, my nephew, Richard, declared that there was not a single attractive black girl at his college with hundreds of black girls.This distinction without a difference troubled me and I pleaded with him to look closer.I told him that his mother and sister were beautiful (they look like the model Oluchi Onweagba) and that he should look for their beauty, which is not uncommon in the African Diaspora, in the women on his campus.I said “I love you” and reminded him that he was the most beautiful boy in his childhood.Although I was 14 when he was born, people would sometimes ask if I was his mother when I babysat him. The pride of being perceived as the mother of such an adorable boy outweighed the stigma of teenage pregnancy.I like down to trying to hard to impress any one just be yourself please.Life is short I want to find someone to enjoy the rest of my life with.Mixy presents you with a range of different people of all races, including Black, White, Hispanic / Latino, Asian, mixed -and even more!And its up to you to decide whether you want to connect or not.