Imagine if you were about to start driving a car, but you had one foot on the gas and one on the brake. The same is true when you get a girl’s number and start making any of these three deadly texting mistakes.
You already put the effort in of getting her interested in you and getting her number…
If you send plain, boring texts like “Hey, how’s it going?
” all the time, she’s not going to get any emotional value from interacting with you over text.
This will help remind you that you need to get her out on a date, not waste time becoming her texting buddy.
The High-Status Filter also helps when you’re feeling anxious and waiting for her to reply to your messages and she’s taking longer than you want. But would you waste gas, waste time, and put stress on the engine?
It’s like some kind of secret language that we’re expect to already know how to speak. an unfair advantage over every other guy she’s talking to.
Principle #5 – Master the High-Status Filter – Guys often lose their chances with a woman because they put too much importance (and pressure) on that one girl.
She always has options, and so she doesn’t “have” to reply to your texts if they don’t spark her interest.
Principle #2 – Make her feel something – Women make decisions about who to give their attention to based on how to they feel in the moment.
Instead try this: act as if you’ve got a dozen other women texting you, and that you’re someone who is high status.
If you had a lot of women texting you, you’re not going to try and have long, drawn out conversations with one woman.